unfit mothers

wow it's been a long time but i'm here, still here. so much has happen and i don't kno where to begin. o happy 2010 everyone i kno i'm a lil late for dat but hey better late then never huh? i have some concerns towards  my mother that is. i love this woman and i'll do anythin for her. without her i would never have been here and of course my father did his thang (lol) but my mother was the one who carried me, mothered me. took care of me. she is my world as i am hers and i hate the fact that she is goin through struggles wich i can't help her the way i'd like to. i cry with her laugh with her tell stories with her and dream with her. i luv her.
but.... thats not what i want to talk about. there's somethin that has been bothering me for a while and i'm tired of seeing this happen, but there's no way i can change it. it is what it is.
why do people get blessed with children and they're not even fit to be parents. i've seen so many women and men that neglect or mistreat their kids that it's just ashame.

i live in the united states, born american and proud of it though i don't agree on what our past government did to our reputation (different story for another time). i live in the worse place ever. camden, nj. one of the top 10 or 5 worse cities in the states. i live in the projects a place where no one would want to start a family. where i live it gets cold and omg it gets cold. explain to me that how can a mother of three (being that she has three kids she should kno better) take her youngest wich is only about 9 months outside where it's below 40 only wearing thermal pants (there not think or anything) and at shirt, and only rap him up with a little blanket. who the hell does that. are you for real. seriously that bothered me cuz if i get cold in a below 40 tem. and have to have two pants on two shirts and a hoody and coat jus imagine how cold that baby was being outside like that.
why does those who don't deserve to have children has them left to right and the ones who stuggle to even have one has to struggle. that never made sence to me.

o, how can a mother that is no longer together with the father and hasn't been together with him for yrs still use her children to get to the father. the worse thing is that she doesn't even have costidy of them and she doesn't even care for them or do anything for them and yet she fake cries to everyone to feel sorry for her.

i'm sorry but i have to go somethin really important came up but believe them subject is not over...